Please find 3 things that you really, really do not use anymore. Be honest. Now think of 3 people who have admired those things or could benefit from having them. Make a date to catch up and connect and surprise with a little something.  Enjoy their smile. Repeat with 3 more things when these have found a home. Better yet, make a pile; you know you have books, earrings, stuffed animals that someone else will love anew. Have fun. Fun is good.